Our home is our sanctuary. It’s usually where we feel most comfortable and the place we look forward to returning to after a long day or a vacation away. Given the attachments we have to our home, it’s easy to understand why an aging parent would want to stay in the place most familiar to them, even if there are signs that staying may present multiple challenges.
Luckily, with some planning and support, seniors may very well be able to age in place. Here are seven issues that should be addressed to help your senior parent stay at home.
1. Have the Conversation
While having those “what if” conversations can be difficult, not talking to your parent about something won’t keep it from happening. It’s important you bring the subject up as soon as possible, so you can begin making plans together and ensure their needs are met. If your parents resist these conversations, perhaps you can bring in their doctor or health care provider, who may be willing to meet with you as a family unit.
2. Do a Home Safety Evaluation
If your parent wants to age in place, you need to be sure the home is safe and free of risks. Look for things that could be problematic for someone whose vision may be fading or if they may have balance issues. For example:
- Is the lighting adequate, especially on the stairs?
- Are there handrails along steps, stairs and in the bathrooms?
- Can clutter or excess furniture be removed from the living area?
- Can they safely reach the supplies they need on a regular basis?
For more tips, check out our recent blog post, 8 Fall Risks: How to Make Your Home Safer.
3. Does the Home Need Renovations?
If your parents own their home, consider potential renovations. For example:
- If a parent needs a wheelchair, are the doors wide enough for a wheelchair to pass through?
- Is the bathroom wheelchair accessible?
- Can a ramp be placed next to outdoor steps?
You also may have to discuss cost of the renovations.
4. Talk About Transportation Options
Eventually, there may come a time when your parent needs to stop driving for safety reasons. The good news is, they can still maintain their independence even without a car. Together, discuss other options, such as community taxis, rideshare programs, volunteer drivers and public transportation.
5. Handle Home Maintenance
Whether large or small, homes require work to keep them clean and maintained. If your parents find it difficult to do the housework or regular home maintenance, can they hire someone to do it or can family members help out?
6. Can Someone Regularly Check In?
With today’s families spread out across the country and the globe, aging parents don’t always have family members close by who can drop in for a visit. If your parent is out-of-state, is there someone you can ask to stop by regularly for a visit and a wellness check? Regular check-ins are not only helpful for your parent, it will also provide you with peace of mind.
7. What is the Process in an Emergency?
What would be the ideal emergency system should a parent fall or become ill? Should your parents get an alert system, one in which they can press a button if they need emergency help? Many private alarm-system companies offer these sorts of solutions.
More and more seniors are aging at home, rather than moving into assisted care communities or even with family members. They want to stay as independent as possible, and with proper planning, it may be a good option. The most important thing is to make sure you talk about the various issues involved, and that everyone is on the same page.
Want to learn more about what it means to age in place? Check out our free guide, Aging in Place: A Popular Trend for a New Generation of Seniors.
